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svitlana-ing's avatar

also am proud to be Esther's white friend!:))))))))))

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Esther's avatar

love u!

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svitlana-ing's avatar

what are the obstacles towards white girlies friend-ing you? why doesnt it happen?

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Esther's avatar

esther not sure too! is it because i don't know what to talk about?

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svitlana-ing's avatar

in this response of yours, i see INWARD attention -> "i am at fault" kinda thinking

i am curious to flip it OUTWARD -> what if its smth about those white girlies? (i have like a couple of ideas LOL being a white girlie but dont wanna anchor you)

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Esther's avatar

hahahahahhaa what does this white girlie is thinking now?

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svitlana-ing's avatar

i think white girls (men too?) are racists against asians. i think so bc i have seen this happen in myself, being a white girly. idk why we have that in us, but i know surely that i am learning to let go of that. so one obstacle is racism, in my pov.

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svitlana-ing's avatar

actually, maybe i know why we have that:D not a history geek but i heard a lot about white supremacy for a reason. its a collective pattern that white humans have.

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Yoyo's avatar

what about Ukrainians or Eastern Europeans! I find myself to get along with them

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Esther's avatar

i like them too! so friendly

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